Shut Behind The Closet Door

I researched my topic and it said that the main factor of ------- is beng lonely. Loneliness is a very powerful emotion. It can lead to depression, illness, even suicide. Although it may often hit the old, sick or handicapped people, it is very common among young people too. A type of loneliness is sexual. 25% of people feel this way.Don't look for the answer to loneliness in a sexual relationship. Many people, especially girls, move from one quick sexual relationship to another, desperate to find closeness and meaning. When this happens, the sort of people they find usually only want the sex part of the relationship, and do not offer more in return. Always remember, even in a stable long-term relationship or marriage, you should still not expect your partner to meet all of your emotional needs. They should certainly meet many of your needs, because your partner should be your best friend. But you will also need a network of good relationships with other friends, giving and taking help and support. We as people try to live out our lives through the imaginary relationships in films, TV, books, or even arm-length relationships on the Internet. These aren't real relationships. Though we don't want to, we have to live the real world. To be wanted and needed, is a big answer to loneliness. This means that you can volunteer at places sometimes. Make yourself wanted and needed by doing good things to beefit others. Hospital visiting, visiting old people, assist an advice center, an inner city help program - the list is endless. Or just learn to be a listening person who can understand how other people feel, and help them. In helping other people, we find friends and lose loneliness. There will always be somebody out there looking for us. We have to make ourseves available to them though. Show that you want to help othersand they will come to you and feed your loneliness. Never drink or smoke. Of course it may take away feelings of loneliness for a few hours, but does not answer the real problem. The problem will still be there when you're sober. You may feel separated from other people because of wrong things that others have done or said to you, or things that you have done or said to others. These things build a wall between you and another person. We as humans will make mistakes and we have to learn how to forgive each other. Look for a way to become friends again. If you have been hurt as a child through sexual or emotional abuse, or difficult relationships with parents, don't bury those feelings. It is possible to find victory over these hurts. They happen for a reason. You might never see it, but it will make you a better person in the long wrong. It will help make you stronger, whether you want to or not. Things happen to everyone. Regardless of what it is, somebody is always going to hurt. Use that as a way to make friends. Share with others your past, they might be able to help you